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Sammicsno (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
My adoptive mother disowned me, too, when I was 18. But after a year of encouragement from me, she changed her mind and accepted me back. People can do all kinds of horrible things out of selfishness and pain - it's not your fault.Good luck.
Sammicsno (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
Adoption Sucks.- adoptee
raffynjenny (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
This is what adoption is supposed to be about, taking care of the orphaned and abandoned children, Adoption should NEVER be about a young girl having an unplanned pregnancy and trying to convince her that she should not keep her baby .Do your studies people Adoption industry is big business, remain objective and find the truth. Babies if they can should remain with their natural families, if that is not possible then adoption should be considered.I am A first mom . Thank you
388Penguin388 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
Personally I don't like this way of thinking. I adopted my dtr so that we could have a child, not to "save" her or to feel good about myself. Attempting to induce pity is, well, pitiful.
yoyocrazy101 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
im a 12 year old girl and was adopted at 2 months old. and many times curious about knowin my birth mother or if i hve any other biological siblings its hard not knowing. but im very thankful for havein being adopted it gave me so many more opportunities to have a great life. so im very glad that my birth mother loved me so much to give me up so i caould have a better life because she was only 17 years old.<33 love and peace
faithrefined (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
I am truly sorry that you had to go through all of that BabyBoySteeves. My prayers and thoughts are with you. God Bless You.-Debbie
BabyBoySteeves (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
I am sorry to say BUT I was chosen by a Mom who made very bad relationship choices and I was Abused Physically, Emotionally and Sexually----HMMMMMM,Chosen???Its not always peaches and cream people!
FlowerBaby88 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
I was adopted when I was 6 days old. My birthmother was only 18 and didn't feel that she could adequately care for a baby. My birthfather left her when he found out about the pregnancy. My adoptive mom writes letters to both me and my sister's birthmothers. My sister is adopted also, but we are not biologically related, by the way. Anyways, I am almost fourteen now, and when I am sixteen I plan on contacting my birth mother. I cannot wait until that day.
faithrefined (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
So sorry to hear that Shaun17170. My adopted daughter is only 11 right now so she hasn't expressed any interest in finding her biological family, but I know that time will probably come some day, and I will support her 100%. I know how it feels. My father died before we could find out the real circumstances behind his adoption...and we may never know for sure who our real grandparents are. It's a strange feeling, and I wouldn't want my daughter to live her life always wondering....-Debbie
Shaun17170 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
OK - I'm adopted too...but the the consequences of now finding my biological parents have far outweighed any benefits of my relationship to my adoptive mother who now hates them all and has burned all family bridges. What is wrong with the woman? She's my mother! how can she now disown me ?Anyone else in the same boat? |
