kemeticlady (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

or, it could be the type of women you are dating. I have heard horrible stories about men, and they all do not fall under the tbone, drug dealing person u describe. fukked up people run across the board, and in all races, really.

TEthePres2006 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

"men should not watch the racy music videos, purchase the cd's, etc."TRUE In-Deed.However,The brotha is right ALSO. It's Both.Supposedly, statistically/financially speaking, more Women support these artists BY FAR. A young man not only learns how to treat women from the males whom he observes but Also the Women. If every woman he knows listens to these artists, it's hard to tell show him, how it's disrespectfulIt's definitely a Partnership.You both made good points

jediwill1974 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

also I am so tired of hearing its not me and my friends dating these kinds of men! lol Well if i believed everyone who told me that its not me its them, then i wouldn't have to hear on all my dates the same stories over and over again about the asshole guys who screw women over in the same exact ways. Either you all are dating the same five men or we have an epidemic of ignorance going on in our relationships.

jediwill1974 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Its that age old argument what came first the chicken or the egg. We need to stop both. Period.

jediwill1974 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Because as i explain in the video. How we pick our mates don't just effect you, it effects the community as a whole and we need to build stronger bonds based on love loyalty and honesty not material things. The love of material truly is hurting us.

kemeticlady (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

with your analogy, men decide what woman do.So, if you feel it's degrading for women to put their bodies on parade, degrading for men to call women bitches, etc. Then men should not watch the racy music videos, purchase the cd's, etc. If men would show no attention to sisters dressed provocative, then women wouldn't do it, right? Do you agree with that?I know the women you speak of exist,but I do not think it's the majority.I know many women who wouldn't go near, the type of man you speak of.

jojoxlt (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

If you were referring to my comment about 'swagger' and 'hating', I stated that it has nothing to do with the car one drives or the money one makes, but the manner in which one carries him/herself. I do agree with you on the responsibility end of it, but what I don't understand is why you would get upset about a woman falling for the 'no good' type of guy? You should be glad that you didn't have to deal with her and her materialistic ways, right? That's how I look at it.